鸡娃
jīwá
helicopter parenting
烂尾娃
lànwěiwá
unfinished kids
虎头蛇尾
hǔ tóu shé wěi
a strong start but weak finish
脱下长衫
tuōxiàchángshān
to step out of traditional roles or expectations for well-educated
千军万马过独木桥
qiānjūnwànmǎguòdúmùqiáo
thousands fighting over one opportunity