The structure …到…头上来了
We use the structure …到…头上来 
to express dissatisfaction with the actions of others.
These actions are irritating and have a negative effect on the recipient of the actions.
to express dissatisfaction with the actions of others.
These actions are irritating and have a negative effect on the recipient of the actions.Scheme
action
which is unpleased
到
who
affected object
头上来了
Examples
他欺负到我头上来了，这个怎么可能
He bullied me. How can this be possible?
tā qīfù dào wǒ tóu shàng lái le, zhè ge zěnme kěnéng
人家欺负到我们头上来了
People are bullying us
rénjiā qīfù dào wǒmen tóu shàng lái le