The 哪有…这么…的 expression is used to criticize or humiliate a person.
It has the meaning "how someone can be like that..." or "there’s no one who is so...".
Either an adjective or a verb, which is used as a predicate, is placed after 这么.
Is that your apology?
nǎ yǒu nǐ zhème dàoqiàn de
How can you be so straightforward? Do you care about his feelings at all?
nǎ yǒu nǐ zhème zhíjiē de? gěi tā liú diǎnr miànzi ya
The structure 有…这样…的吗 has the same meaning.
Either an adjective or a verb, which is used as a predicate, is placed after 这样.
These expressions are used in colloquial speech.
He is always talking behind people’s backs. Nobody does it as much as him
yǒu tā zhèyàng zuò rén de ma? zǒngshì zài bèihòu shuō rénjiā huài huà